Twenty-three years ago today, at this time of the day, I was a mama for just a few hours. Becca was born in the early afternoon. I was working for the State of Hawaii, Department of Human Services, in-training. I was on Maui and the training was on Oahu every other week. So Becca and I got a free trip to stay with my aunt for three or four separate weeks; And her paternal grand parents had a special treat, spending those weeks with their first grand-baby while I was at the trainings. While I worked my full-time state job, Baby Becca spent her days with Nanny. We spotted her…